Saturday, September 26, 2009

How To Win Him Back

How To Win Him Back

The Real Truth!

They told me – over and over there’s no way I could possibly win him back but they were mistaken. The thing is I did win him back because I applied a number of the same strategies revealed in this blog. Winning him back was really a pleasurable process once I knew what I had to do.

Now take a very close look at the above few lines… read them again if you have to because if you honestly want to experience the same result then what you are about to read will definitely help you obtain it.

First I will share three vital steps you can use now to win him back followed by some very important points on the psychology of a man that you really need to know.
Step 1: Should you contact him? Absolutely NOT… do not call him, do not email him and do not text message him. No listen up because this is important… If you do contact him he will gain the high ground which will make your job of winning him back one hundred times more difficult.
Now think about it, he will be expecting you to contact him so when you don’t he will start to wonder why.

Because you have not called him you will gain a very high value in his eyes and this is exactly what you want. Let me explain, right about now he will start to think where you are, why you have not called and most important he will wonder if you are with another man.

Guess what? Because you have not contacting him he will really want to talk with you so he may try to contact you first. If he does make first contact it is a very good sign.

Step 2: If he calls you first here’s what you should doAct happy and talk with a smile on your face. Tell him you are just getting ready to go out and your friends are waiting for you. If he asks you where you are going just tell him you are heading out with friends but do not give details.

Do not act rude or show you are still upset with him even if you are. By doing this you will create a massive curiosity factor in his mind and this can only work in your favour. Tell him you will call him back tomorrow. However you will not call him tomorrow. I cannot tell you how important it is that you do NOT call him back even though you said you would. Should you call him you will undo everything you have worked so hard to achieve.

Should he send you a text message you will not answer it for at least twenty four hours. When you do reply remember to make it a very short and polite text.
Step 2: From now on you will be seen as irresistible to himWhat I mean by this is that you should become very appealing by taking the following actions.

• Make sure he sees you as a real sweetie;

• Become a complimentary partner to him rather than an equal in his eyes;

• He must see you as a sexual creature;

• It is vital that you create some mystery and challenge about yourself because this will make him want you.

These are the kind of things you can do by dressing differently, doing something with your hair, going to the gym and really toning your body up.


Now Before You Go On
There Is Something You Should Know

Let’s face it, the majority of the information available on the internet is completely misleading, it could even destroy your chances of ever winning him back. Let me explain, most of the information available on the internet is focused on winning your partner, lover or ex back. And here’s the big problem, the information focuses on both men and women rather than specifically on winning a man back.

And if that wasn’t bad enough there is literally thousands of individuals selling advice and books focused on both men and women rather than just a man. What that means is you could very well end up taking advice from someone with very little experience on a mans psychology… someone who should specifically be focused on getting a man back.What’s the lesson here? If you are asking yourself how can I win him back? You really need to be taking advice that pertains to winning a man back and nothing else. Read the real story in my book How To Get Him Back Fast and take the steps and actions you truly need to take in order to win him back and keep him in your arms forever >> http://www.howtogethimbackfast.com/

Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Learn How To Win Your Ex Boyfriend Back

Now listen closely, if you honestly want to win your boyfriend back I have got some important points you need to know which include the following.

• How to make him wonder what you are up to and who you are with so he becomes uncontrollable jealous

• What to do to make him see you as incredibly attractive so he wants you and only you

• And a nifty little technique that can send him wild to want you back ASAP

Lets face it we have all been dumped or had our heart broken at some point in our lives and it hurts like crazy but the thing is we may not have had the techniques that can win out partner back that I am about to give you.
Before I tell you how to do that, I want you to know that I really understand how you feel. I was dumped by my ex after 7 years together and it literally shattered me. The worst thing was I couldn’t even talk to her because her parents were from this extremely wealthy family and their home had security guards that stopped me at the gates.
She was not allowed out nor I in. I couldn't sleep and I couldn’t eat!

But listen closely; I want you to know its ok, because you won't feel this way forever!

You can win a boyfriend back the easiest way possible and gain total control of your relationship so you are both happy together!
Did you know that 91.65% of relationships can be saved?

This is absolutely true. Think about it... If he fell in love with you once, he can fall in love with you again.

This is the attitude you have got to have.

Never try to win him back by pleading. This will only push him further away from you and work against what you really want!

If you really want to have him back in your life again you are going to have to make him fall in love with you all over again... just like it happened the first time when everything was so nice.
Here’s how to make sure that happens.

You need to appeal to three main points: his curiosity, his eyes, and his male ego.

His curiosity – Do NOT contact him at all. You will mail him a hand written letter telling him that something wonderful happened to you recently and that you recognize that it was the right decision to break up with one another!

His eyes – Make your physical appearance better than it was. Start exercising every day. Get a completely new hair style. Buy some sexy clothes, the kind of clothes that will fit your new body and make you look amazing. Do whatever you to make yourself look more attractive to any man.

His male ego – Literally ignore him! Pretend like the break up doesn’t even matter. Pretend like it does not even bother you in the slightest and that it was the best thing that has ever happened to you. You are going to make him think you are having the best time you have ever had in your entire life and that you simply have no desire for him at all!

IMPORTANT: Do not contact him at all throughout this procedure. If he contacts you, be sure to make it short and make it seem like you are to busy to talk to him. Remember to be friendly, smile and polite… this will make him crazy.


If you like my tips and would you feel comfortable enough to buy my book “How To Get Him Back Fast” where I have included a full comprehensive guide to Wining Him Back then head on over to http://www.HowToGetHimBackFast.com and grab your copy.

P.S: Promise yourself to invest in you and make the decisions to make you happy before you think about making him happy. His happiness will follow once you are in the driving seat.

Best of luck…







Wednesday, September 16, 2009

Getting Him Back – Crazy Stuff

If you were to type “get him back” into any search engine you will discover there is a wealth of advice to be had including books to buy and websites to see which all claim to be the ants pants in the art of winning back your ex man’s heart. Obviously most are not that good but there are a few that are worth their weight in gold.

Because I am personally responsible for helping many women win back their man and have authored a book on the topic I have developed a good eye for detail when it comes to spotting the good information from the bad. Hence I put this blog together as a complimentary resource to help some of you know what direction to take and which books you really should buy.
So is it really possible to win your ex man’s heart back? In two words “ABSOLUTELY YES” My question to you is… Do you really want to?
If your answer is yes because you absolutely love him and just want him back no matter what then there are a number of points you really need to do which include:• Do NOT keep calling him if he has broken off with you. This only puts him more in control and makes him push you further and further away.

• Learn the best steps to take if he is already with someone new that will have him thinking about you rather than the new woman and have him wanting you back desperately.

• Take the time to read a recommended book or two on how to get him back fast that will ultimately deliver an arsenal of skills you can use to not just win him back but to make sure he never leaves you again.

• Make him jealous without him realizing you are trying to. When done right with the proper strategy this technique can work enormously to your advantage.One of the greatest advantages a woman can have is to learn a little about how a man’s mind works. If you were of the understanding that men are from Mars you’ll have no doubt in your mind after learning about how a man’s mind really works

The Things To Avoid Are:

1. Never get advice from your girlfriends unless they are professionals on the subject

2. You should not ever pretend you have a new sexy boyfriend to all his friends just so they can run off and tell him. This is a tact but must be executed in the right way and with class.

3. Never ever, ever, ever try to justify to him how you are meant for each other or try to keep contacting him either directly or indirectly. Again this will only put him in control and de-value your self worth in his eyes.
I will touch lightly on another important point for you ladies. The point is on taking your girl friends advice… It is a bad thing and here’s why... How can a woman advise you on the heart of a man? A woman should never take advice from a woman about a man especially if you want advice about getting him back.

You really need to gain a huge amount of self worth back in his eyes and you will never achieve that if you keep running after him or doing things that a man simply won’t respond too.
A Man Will Never Value You If:
You make things to easy for him. Contrary to beliefs, men don’t want anything that comes to easy to them. Men really do need to work for what they have so don’t give him anything unless he works for it. Men only value the results of hard work which means he should have to work hard to have YOU!
For a more detailed look at how a man’s mind works I encourage you to take some time out to read my book. You can buy it and download it immediately at http://www.howtogethimbackfast.com/ and for the sake of just $37 US Dollars it’s a very small investment to help get your man back.
What ever you do be sure not to take the next step without doing a little homework. It’s vital to make the right moves if you truly want him back. If you make the wrong moves you may have to work much harder or you could loose him forever.







Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Learn The Magic Of Making Up

If you have just broken up you are now feeling what is one of the worst experiences you will ever feel it’s time you did something that can really help you feel much better. A break up is full of emotions that can really drag you down especially if you are the one who didn’t initiate the break up. BUT… there is good news!

There are wonderful and special techniques that actually get your ex back rather quickly when you learn how to implement them. These techniques have been scrutinized by many skeptics (I know because I am one of them) but the skeptics have typically been converted into believers when using the techniques.

One can learn all these techniques to getting an ex back in just a few books... it’s not all that difficult especially if you are prepared to invest about twenty minutes in the day because you believe getting him back is important and worth at least that.
I have purchased many books and to be honest most were crap. The ones I most approve of I have listed in my Recommended Resources area to the top right of this blog. Not only do I personally approve of them I think the testimonials speak a good story on each of their websites.

I recently read another book on the subject that I will share some insight on. The book is titled The Magic Of Making Up. The Magic of Making uses methods that can really help you win your ex back.

The book, The Magic Of Making Up is nothing shy of innovative in the way it uses real world truths to get your ex back. As I am somewhat an authority on the subject I can pick a dud within just a few minutes of reading but I am very pleased with this book.

Although the magic of making up is a wonderful book it is not specifically for women and getting their boyfriends back. It is a wonderful book with incredible techniques but is targeting men and women.

Because there are so many books, audios and videos tutorials available in the market and all claiming to be the best, I don't blame you if you’re thinking there all just sales hype because most are. There are the few with genuine and real information that works though and after reviewing many I have only recommended the ones that I found to be genuine.

Since most people who come to this blog are looking specifically for information on how to get a MAN back I recommend going with my book on How To Get Him Back Fast or Ger Your Guy Back as they are specifically focused on getting back a man back.
Take some time out and I strongly suggest for a small price if $37US Dollars it is a small price to pay for getting your ex man back and more importantly keeping him forever.

You can see my personally written book here >> How To Get Him Back Fast.






Monday, September 14, 2009

How Can I Get Him Back

The most common question I get is “How Can I Get Him Back?”

There are many answers to this question so let’s explore a few together and see if I can’t help you out right now…

We will look at specific problems so as not to be vague.

The goal is not just to get your ex man back… more important is to keep him forever. Before we go into some specifics you really need to understand a little about male psychology. A mans mind may appear complicated to a woman but let me assure you men are not all that complex. As a matter of a fact men are very simple to figure out when you understand just how the male mind works.

First you really do not need to understand that he didn’t leave you because of a particular thing you said nor was it something you did even if he said it was. When a man gives you such an excuse it is typically him justifying himself and not taking responsibility for his own actions.

When a couple separate it is always because of emotional reasons… it will almost never be because of logical reasons. The reason I share this with you now is because if you truly want to get him back you must not try to convince him to come back to you. It is his mood that you need to change as his mood is where he will make his decision.

The longer you try to tell him how good you are together or try convincing him you are right for one another the more you will push him away so DON’T DO IT!

The thing you have to recognize is that the way he is feeling now about your past relationship crumbled over time. As much as you don’t want to hear this you do need to know… it got to a stage where he felt like he didn’t want to be around you. But don’t worry as this is very common and can be cured very quickly with just a few easy steps.

Allow me to explain.

The sooner you understand a little about a mans psychology the sooner you can have him come crawling back and into your arms like a long lost puppy that just found his way home.

You see men have what are called Emotional Hot Buttons. These emotional hot buttons are what makes a man react to a woman. By utilizing a little psychology you can take full advantage of these emotional hot buttons and get him back very quick. When you use these techniques you can have him feeling the same feelings he did that drew him to you in the first place. When you get him feeling like this you are definitely on the right track.

By the way this is not being sneaky not is it manipulative. If you want him back for genuine reasons and you truly love him there is nothing bad about using psychology.

By understanding and using psychology is definitely by far the best way to get him back fast and keep him forever if you choose too.

When a woman learns and understands a little psychology you can render a man completely defenceless because you are literally controlling him by pushing his emotional hot buttons. Even a completely stubborn man can change his mind in a second when you learn how to apply these techniques properly.

Some of the best psychology for pushing a mans Emotional Hot Buttons can be found when you click on Learn His Emotional Hot Buttons Today.